Sunday, July 2, 2017

What it's like to use online dating in Russia

There is an ongoing debate about the usefulness and effectiveness of online
dating. Very often, the views tend to generalize the advantages and
disadvantages of this type of tool, forgetting the specific local context.
A good example is the Russian (or Russian-speaking countries), which is in
a league of its own in regard to online dating.
There its use is widespread and considered a normal practice to meet people
like others. While in most Western countries most dating sites are used by
girls for the sole purpose of obtaining validation and a legion of
supporters beta, in Russia, they offer true: if you follow some simple
rules, your chances of meeting a beautiful sexy girl are quite high.There
are indeed preconditions for success in the use of these sites, especially
if you are a foreigner. Most sites (like Mamba.ru, for example) will have
an English version to navigate will not be a problem. Yet one of the most
important factors to give an unprecedented success rate for non-native is
to have a good command of the Russian language.
Don t get me wrong: using English, you will still be able to talk and
interact with a large number of Russian women. You will also be able to
score with many of them. However, the scope of girls you'll be able to join
will be significantly reduced and, believe me, there are girls on the
websites that you would hate to miss. So try to understand at least the
basics of the Russian language before trying this approach. This investment
will allow you to achieve a lot of time.
Russian girls Penza looking for a date online
The other important factor when you subscribe to one of these Russian
dating sites, is having presentable pictures (either display some wealth or
taken in exotic locations). Don t be too shy to display your property.
The girls are good at making very attractive men, even if physically you
will be out of shape. Finally, try to cover as much as possible, that you
are just passing by tourists (if you will). With the ease of an apartment
today you can effortlessly story you are an expatriate or a business
traveler in Russia. It's important for girls to feel that there is a small
chance of continuity or relationship, so you can close the deal faster.
They are tired and wary of sex tourists.
what to expect
The quality of the girls in the Russian dating sites is well above average.
If you exclude the inevitable attention whores (they are everywhere these
days), your problem will be choosing where to start. The possibility that
you will get a phone number and even a webcam chat just after a few minutes
of conversation is very high.
From there, you can very well decide the speed at which you want things to
happen. A good example was released recently, when some Russian youtubers
decided to play around with online dating and literally push the boundaries
of what kind of results you can achieve.
Another day in the life of a young couple in Russia
These are very popular YouTube that a couple living in Penza, a city 600 km
southeast of Moscow. They are well known in Russia with a series of weekly
comic sketches that are called Beauty and the Beast & # 8221;.
In fact, they depict the life of a young Russian couple with a comic touch
and brutal description of how labor relations in this country. Needless to
say, most episodes would be considered by Western feminists and # 8220;
appalling and scandalous for Women & # 8221; which makes for another good
reason to follow indeed. Another detail is that the girl in the video is
actually very sexy.
Subtitle of one of their episodes
Just a few weeks they have posted something different in their YouTube
channel. With a mixture of humor and a touch of social experience, they
decided to test the limits of online dating, while filming the thing.
The plot was simple enough: a user profile in a dating site was created
using one of the guys who plays a minor role in their sketches. Since he
didn t look exactly like a movie star, they dressed and made some pictures
of him next to a car of friends. The car, although a recent model, was no
big brands that Russians appreciate (usually German manufacturers).
Within minutes, the profile was live and they began to chat with the girls.
The initial success was easy enough and, as they show on the video, one of
the girls, even sent them a photo in her underwear after a few messages.
Interestingly, one of the first things she did was: is the car yours
Everything was funny, but, by itself, not worthy of a YouTube video ?. They
decided to push ahead and test the willingness of girls to meet their guy.
The proposed challenge was that male would try in a Western society: the
girls were invited to meet the man at the door of his building, bringing
four cans of beer with them. At first they did not know if a girl is ready
to do such a crazy thing for a guy they had ever met.
The mood quickly changed when three girls have accepted the invitation & #
8221;. Soon enough dates have been set (for that day) and set their cameras
to YouTube that on the flat balcony, wondering if they really appear.
Flowers in exchange for beer. fair exchange.
The first didn t take long to appear, with a plastic bag filled with beer
cans. As they watched her from a distance, we could see a girl just normal
nice approach the building. When she came down, the crew came out with the
guy in profile holding a bouquet of flowers.
She was surprised and extremely embarrassed, asking not to be filmed. They
ignored his request and posted the video anyway. The second daughter had a
similar reaction, but she seemed to be okay with stuffing. She took the
flowers and they kept beers. Fair trade.
The third daughter acted differently: as soon as she saw the crew of the
camera out of the door of the building, she dropped the bag immediately
with beers and ran as fast as she could. Although his face was barely
visible, she was beautiful and attractive. all were done.

Ultimately, the question is unavoidable: is it possible to achieve a
similar result in a Western society, just a matter of a few hours? The
answer is clearly no. Western girls mindset is the one who let all the
human effort, with unpredictable gain (if any).
Russian girls also have their requirements (lets not be naive, are we
going?), But they are willing to put the effort, even if it means to bring
beer to the guy's door. And that should be all about is that "gender
equality".
More: 3 ways to be more successful in online dating

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