Understanding shit tests is important. Really important. Not just to
navigate your relationships with women, but also for understanding,
defining and defending yourself.
Don t believe me? So why chronic God in the world's first poop test in
chapter 3 of Genesis, immediately after the small matter of the creation of
heaven and earth? here's how it is men agree ,, before any discussion, say,
the purpose of life, the nature of God, or the path of freedom, God sits
down and says, Listen & # 8220 & # 8221.
And yet we are eleventy bazillion years later having to relearn the lessons
of this primordial history of man versus woman. Rest assured, however. The
story is short and the lessons are lively.
The first test shit
Let's set the stage:
Now the serpent was more crafty than any wild animals the Lord God had
made. One day he asked the woman, "Did God really you should not eat the
fruit of one of the trees of the garden? "
"Of course we may eat fruit from the trees in the garden," the woman
replied. "It is only the fruit of the tree in the garden that we are not
allowed to eat. God said, 'You must not eat or even touch; if you do, you
will die. "
"You will not die! "The serpent said to the woman. "God knows that your
eyes will be opened as soon as you eat, and you will be like God, knowing
good and evil. "
The woman was convinced. She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit
looked delicious, and she wanted the wisdom it would give her. So she took
the fruit and ate. Then she gave to her husband, who was with her, and he
also ate. At that moment their eyes were opened, and they felt suddenly
ashamed of their nakedness. Genesis 3 NLT
So what is the test of shit? Simply this: If Adam to take the fruit to
please Eve and maintain her relationship with her? Or should it say, & #
8216; The farm. On foot snake talk and return to the tent. I want to be
successful with you & # 8217.
Lesson # 1 - this ISN T new shit
God's response to Eve shit disobedient test is quite instructive:
And you'll want to control your husband, and he shall rule over you & #
8221.
In other words, this tension, the conflict between men and women we deal
constantly going back to the beginning. The feminists of the first wave
didn t create. feminists of the second or third wave didn t create either.
All they're doing collectively come together to do what they can do
individually t & # 8211; control men.
Feminists argue that feminism is about equality. & # 8216; & # 8217
equality; is a lie. As ever was, their desire is that women rule over you.
Period.
Now, fast forward a few thousand - or million & # 8211; years. Because
women haven t changed, given the same warning:
& # 8230; you women must accept the authority of your husbands. For
example, Sarah obeyed her husband, Abraham, calling him lord. You are her
daughters when you do what is right without fear of what your husbands
might do & # 8221. 1 Peter 3
Now wouldn t be told women to present to men if they weren t able. It would
be just average. But even well-meaning women fear that their natural man
would do with its authority if it actually did submit to him. Letting go,
trusting another human being, is difficult. Humans suck most of the time. I
understood. And feminism is always there to stir up fear and mistrust.
The management of this age-old conflict compels us to recognize their fears
and demonstrate a solid, trustworthy - so unpredictable playfulness -
masculinity.
Lesson # 2 - Be active not passive
Adam is the punishment:
"Because you listened to your wife and ate from the tree whose fruit I
commanded you not to eat, the ground is cursed because of you. All your
life you will struggle to survive it & # 8221.
Have you noticed this? The cause of Adam's transgression was that & # 8216;
listened to his wife and followed in disobedience. woman happy, happy life,
my ass!
He should have the closest grabbed a shovel and cut the snake's head before
admonishing his wife for his greed - this despite their lavish home!
Instead Adam sat passively where the scene unfolded.
The lesson is simple. To be active. To be engaged. And actually care of
your wife. Of course, many women calling you a bully and say you're too
much control. That's good. If you're in it a real relationship, neighbor.
This can be treated with the & # 8216; snakes of life itself.
You can t Fool me, sir!
Lesson # 3 - Women are gullible and greedy
Women have exquisite feminine virtues based on openness and responsiveness
than men rightly cherish when we can find it. Frankly, when you see it, it
is incredibly attractive and intoxicating. But there's another side to the
female virtue.
When you're open and receptive, you're also more easily fooled.
And it was not Adam who was deceived by Satan. The woman was deceived, and
sin was the result.
And when your nature is to attract and receive, you are also more inclined
to materialism and greed you are looking for validation in all the wrong
places.
She saw that the tree was beautiful & # 8230; .and she wanted & # 8230;
This is one reason - there are others & # 8211; that men should lead women
in relationships. It is not master them or for their own gain abusively.
It's to provide women with a safe space to express and share their feminine
nature with us without being taken advantage of.
Conversely, when women call the shots in a relationship, it is exhausting
nature and ultimately unsatisfactory for both. His greed and credulity
combine to dominate the purpose of the union. She will see and want and be
sold & # 8230;. a bigger house & # 8230; a larger diamond & # 8230;. a
newer car & # 8230; other holiday & # 8230 cheap; a fairy tale wedding. You
know the drill.
In the end, his greed and credulity become your own. And the things his
control will become your masters.
Who's the boss?
Lesson # 4 - Lead your wife, or ..
Let this game. It's a period of time when Eve took the fruit, but Adam hasn
t. At this point, Adam has two choices. It can track Eve - submit for & #
8211; or follow God. Ultimately, of course, he submits to Eve.
But why did he choose the day of God knowing that it was false? Because he
was afraid of losing his relationship with her he loved, a relationship
marked by the undisputed trust and sheer physical and emotional intimacy.
Sounds good right?
In the end though - and this is the lesson for us & # 8211; by selling its
own integrity and its appeal to the leadership, he ended up losing the same
relationship he wanted to protect. In its place, he received a new
relationship with Eve marked by mistrust, conflict and competition.
Similarly, when we abdicate leadership, when we sell our own integrity, we
first lose self-respect, and in turn, his respect. And then the
relationship ends, or worse, it empties into hell blue pill. It is simply
not acceptable alternative for men conducting relationships.
Conclusion
So there it is. Nothing new under the sun. Women are the same as have ever
been. And the tension between us is as old as humanity - baked in the heart
of every man and woman.
So what do we do? Well, what does Adam do? He got up after the test-shit
colossal failure to end all test failures shit and took the red pill.
The man Adam named his wife Eve, because she would be the mother of all
living.
In other words, it takes its authority back and advance the best he can,
perhaps having learned a bit along the way. Oh, and he takes Eve back to
the tent. And she follows.
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