There are many game defeatists who are happy to tell you that & # 8216; & #
8217 game; is useless. You don t need. All early-200os negging and feather
boa wear & # 8212; -a nonsense load. What you need is to be beautiful and
rich and you will be surrounded by a small group of ladies, scantily clad
nubile willing to sleep with you in no time.
It's stupid and the guys who tell you they are not being fired. This allows
you to benefit girls is a killer instinct. If you don t have as though you
are physically attractive you passed over for men who do.
I think twice when I switched on for the guys that were less beautiful than
me. Maybe it happened a lot of times more, but there are two in particular
I remember.
Yes Daughter
First, with a girl named Sophie who I went to high school with. Sophie was
in the orchestra. She played the cello. Looking back, it was a typical & #
8216; Troy girl: slim, brunette, long hair straight, beautiful and
artistic. If only I d known then that would be the kind of girl I d be
hunting around the world for the next two decades.
Anyway, Sophie loved me. She was a & # 8216; & # 8217 girl yes it is;: I
don t have to do anything and she loved me anyway. She used to look at me
with & # 8216; dinner bowl doggy eyes too long when I spoke, sitting next
to me in class and hang on every word I say.
We were in a show together. Well, she was in the band and I help behind the
scenes. Even though I was inexperienced with the girls, I knew it was in
me. It was obvious. Something would happen & # 8212; he felt inevitable. I
stay back, I decided. Be cool. It was in the bag so no rushing, no?
Last night a show there was a celebration for everyone, artists and
stagehands. Tonight would be the night. I turned to this dance in my best
shirt, white Oxford with a flower print on it my mother had bought me a
catalog.
During the evening I hung back. I don t dance with other children as I was
embarrassed at that time. It would work in my favor as I thought. Not for
me the shallow pleasures of the masses. No, I was special and different.
The mysterious guy who didn t dance.
Late in the evening, I looked over the party and saw that Sophie was slow
dance & # 8212; no, grinding & # 8212; Todd against this wasteful in our
year. Todd was wearing a faux leather jacket maladjusted. He had greasy
hair. It was a little ugly.
I went to the bathroom and looked at myself in the mirror. Admittedly, I
was not t uglier than Todd? No, Todd was certainly ugly.
I was baffled.
to kiss
There was this other girl named Amelia. It was in college. One of my
friends had loved Amelia but an evening at a local club, she's shown a
strong preference for me and us ended up kissing.
As Sophie, what appeared to be in the bag. But again, having learned my
lesson, I chose to take things slowly. Amelia and I hang out, go to clubs
in London together. Once, when my parents were away, I owe him stay in my
room for the night after we d Miss.
I was still a virgin: this was the first time I'd had a girl in bed with
me. We kissed a little, I was too afraid to try to undress her. Then we
fell asleep. Nothing happened.
It doesn t matter, I thought to myself. I can wait. We're getting closer.
Soon we will have sex. Soon.
A week later, I was shocked to find Amelia attending a guy called Rick. It
was another grease in a faux leather jacket. And we're not talking about
George Clooney, either. Rick was funny appearance, with tight curly hair
and an ugly, clumsy way.
Again, I looked in the mirror in despair. He had been going so well & #
8212; how could I have messed up things so badly? I certainly better than
Rick research?
What I could not to realize that it was not physical attractiveness in both
cases was the deciding factor. Nor, indeed, was it money, as both Todd and
Rick are from disadvantaged backgrounds. No, what made the difference was
that these two guys had a killer instinct that I lacked.
You see, it is man s & # 8212 responsibility, within the limits of consent,
of course & # 8212; to push the interaction in the sense of sex, not the
girl's. Yes, girls do sometimes initiate sex, but it's rare. They wait for
you, man, to lead.
I thought that it was enough that a girl was interested in me and that I
would not have to do anything else & # 8211; sex would be & # 8216; & #
8217 just happen;. I was wrong. A girl showing her interest can be a good
start, but it's only: a start.
This game is just because the game is not a set of lines or routines: it is
rather to understand the sexual dynamics and how to act accordingly, even
if this requires behavior that is unnatural for you.
If I had known that it was necessary to have the killer instinct and make
things happen, it is likely that I would have slept with both Sophie and
Amelia. As I was forced to watch from the sidelines as others have done
what I'd done to me.
There are a number of lessons from these two stories, but perhaps foremost
is that if you find a pretty girl you can bet your life that the other guys
do too. And if you see an opportunity you need to display your killer
instinct and go.
The key is that the girls want to be too, but they best meet the men who
are from the beginning, without complex and go for what they want. It's
more sexy to her. Even if you're more beautiful, even if it is & # 8216;
yes daughter, if you do nothing then it will eventually pull and go to the
next ruthless cad who comes and pushes the envelope.
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