Most people in the free world, sports fans or not, are familiar with Aaron
Hernandez saga. The reader's digest version is that he, Hernandez was
convicted on 15 for the murder of Odin Lloyd, a semi-professional
footballer and was sentenced to life in prison without possibility of
parole.
Hernandez was indicted subsequently double homicide charges from a double
murder in 2012, but was acquitted last month. Five days after beating the
charges, however, the former New England Patriots tight end took his own
life in his cell at the Massachusetts prison in just 27 years, leaving
behind his fiancée (Shayanna Jenkins) and 4 year old daughter .
Shayanna Jenkins
The main question that's been reflected in all media since his arrest back
in 13 for the murder Lloyd was how could a man who had achieved ultimate
success by becoming a professional athlete and acquire wealth blood round
generations -froid killer? How can a man who had everything, financial
security, a bride, a daughter, and the fame and fortune just throw on a
misunderstanding in a night club?
How it started
Any man with the consciousness of the red pill knows that fathers play a
huge role in the successful education of strong male son, both physically
and mentally. Hernandez was obviously physical traits elite but his mental
state was severely lacking.
A few months after his arrest for the murder Odin Lloyd Rolling Stone
published an article called The Gangster In The Huddle that chronicle the
lives and Aaron Hernandez time of his childhood in his first murder
conviction seemingly inevitable degree.
I read the article carefully before coming to this paragraph Aaron's
father, Dennis:
& # 8230; in January 2006, Dennis himself recorded on a hernia repair at a
local hospital. Something happened on the table, however, and he contracted
an infection; two days later he was dead. He was 49, in the otherwise
splendid health, and loved by almost everyone in the city.
Hernandez was just 16 when he lost his father. According to the article,
Aaron was shocked beyond tears and sat expressionless at the funeral while
his older brother, D.J., sobbing uncontrollably on the coffin.
Hernandez young and older brother D.J.
By all accounts, Dennis was a good father to the Hernandez brothers. He
built them a brand change room in the family's basement so they can form
(he recognized his two son were athletically gifted from a young age), made
sure that their homework was finished on time and asked them to pick up
blitzes s or offensive missions. He also assured that his son weren t
subject to the dangers of the streets that plagued her own childhood:
Dennis them safe from this life with all his strength ", said Gary
Fortier. "He was the perfect father: He went to every line of scrimmage,
and 'em up at dawn to work"
D.J. was like a second father to Aaron
Losing his father at an age where boys need it most almost Hernandez
damaged beyond repair. He still had his older brother, who was like their
father since the discipline and work ethic were but a series of events that
occurred before and after Dennis died has finalized Aaron s transformation
from a child who was a goofball happy-go-lucky man with homicidal
tendencies (suicidal and later) and an insatiable need for violence.
His mother was not a good influence
As good father Dennis was their mother, Terri was the opposite. People who
knew the family said it was a lot of drama in the house Hernandez. In 2001,
she was arrested for running an illegal sports book when Aaron was 12. She
didn t do all the time, but this event was the beginning of a rupture
between her and Aaron. His subsequent case with a drug dealer put the nail
in the coffin:
Friends say that Terri had started cheating on Dennis with a violent
physical coke dealer named Jeffrey Cummings, who was married to the niece
of Dennis, Tanya Cummings.
The relationship with Terri Cummings, whose nickname is Meathead, was an
endless source of grief for the son. There was an ugly spectacle in the
stands during a UConn game, says a family friend. Terri there to watch the
game DJ, was faced with anger by his niece and slapped in the face. The
next day, said the friend, "Aaron hurt bad and broke his heart. "
He could hold together, or handled the fallout better if Dennis had been
around to see through it. But in January 2006, Dennis himself recorded on a
hernia repair at a local hospital & # 8230;
As previously reported, Dennis died two days later.
Terri (left), D. J. (Center) to the Hernandez murder trial of
But n t stop there:
Heartsick and angry, Aaron seemed to implode. "It would revolt," Terri USA
Today in an interview three years later. "It was not the same child, the
way he spoke to me. The shock of losing his father, there was so much
anger "No wonder there. She moved Cummings in the house she shared with
Aaron, and married when his divorce was final Tanya.
To the surprise, cops responded to phone calls soon person abusing Terri
Cummings. "We have responded to this address on more than one occasion,"
said Lieutenant Detective Kevin Morrell Bristol P. D. In June 2010,
Cummings drunk one night and got angry. Grabbing a kitchen knife he slashed
his face and body Terri before she fled to her neighbors next door. Cops
arrested Cummings in court and accused of assault and sent him to prison
for two years. Terri divorced this year, but brought it back, said friends,
when he was released in 2012.
A bad father negatively affects the lives and mental well-being of boys and
girls. An absent father sometimes magnifies these problems.
Poor mother can also negatively affect children in a negative way, but the
affects can be lessened and even eliminated by a good father. Same thing
applies with absentee mother.
Hernandez was arrested for the murder of Odin Lloyd
But a good father is lost too soon combined with an unfaithful mother who
acts selfishly and did not clearly account for the psyche of his son
following his actions deadly consequences. Multiple victims Aaron Hernandez
left in its wake, Odin Lloyd, Shayanna Jenkins, daughter Avielle, and
Hernandez himself all suffered continue to suffer the consequences for the
rest of their lives.
Did I absolving Hernandez?
Of course not. Whatever our education and experience, we're all born with a
fundamental understanding of the difference between good and evil. Aaron
Hernandez was wrong to kill Odin Lloyd and deserved the punishment he
received.
What was lost in the story, however, was the effect his poor excuse of a
mother had on him at a young age that his illegal exploits and deal with a
violent drug dealer whom she eventually married and moved into the house
she shared with her son. The media speculated and analyzed ad nauseam his
life searching for possible explanations for his metamorphosis into a
cold-blooded killer.
But people here know how and why bad mothers ruin their children for life
as the evidence is all around us every day. And as usual the media leaning
left conveniently leaves the woman's role and responsibility in any
tragedy. The saga of Aaron Hernandez was no different.
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