If "Man Up" and Get Married?

It is a question I often see even on social media: Men should, given the
degenerate state of modern society, get married? Let's start with the case
against the marriage, which seems to reinforce daily.
The case against marriage
Those who argue that men should avoid marriage usually do the following:
1. Women are hypergamous

Hypergamy is the concept of marrying someone with a higher social status.
This has always been the case. In the Middle Ages, the nobility tried to
marry their daughters to the nobles who were at or above grade. At the Mad
Men era, secretaries would marry their bosses. Men are also hypergamous but
it manifests itself differently. While women tend to seek richer or class
of men, men gravitate towards the most attractive girl, they can marry and
date.
There is a good reason why women are hypergamous: When it works, it allows
women to get the best supplier for their future children. The offspring of
a handsome rich man, will start life with a leg up on their competitors
while the children of the poor, men will face more adversity. Hypergamy is
an integrated feature of women. Some of them may not be aware they are
hypergamous. They are simply fulfilling their natural inclination. As such,
hypergamy is good. A woman hypergamous has higher standards. Do you really
want to marry someone who has a low level?
The problem arises when hypergamy does not end when a couple say their
wedding vows. At that time, hypergamy should end because the couple
promised to be faithful to each other, but modern divorce laws make it
easier for women to divorce their husbands to satisfy the fantasy of
marriage to above. However, it is rare that a divorcee will really find her
prince charming, which is why there are so many bitter women out there.
2. Easy Divorce

While hypergamy is not new, easy divorce. The first law on no-fault divorce
was signed by Ronald Reagan cuckservative icon in 1969. It was introduced
on the premise that it would make the most lenient divorce for the parties.
Instead, it has increased the divorce rate skyrocket, weakened society, and
helped lead us in the colossal mess we are. Means that no-fault divorce
should not be adultery, physical abuse or abandonment for a couple getting
a divorce. All you need is the desire to not be together.
The problem is exacerbated because pop culture has instilled in us that a
marriage is valid as long as you are "in love. "But marriage will have
points where you might not have warm feelings about your spouse. Our
ancestors understood this and made vows the foundation of marriage, but
modern women high on the degenerate movies Hollywood and informed quality
chick D are trained to think that marriage is at the time, they learn their
husbands is not exciting as Christian Gray in the 50 Shades series.
3. rape divorce

The courts used to food prices pension in cases where there is a large
disparity between the income of spouses earning capacity. This happens much
less now that women are earning capacity nearly equal to men, but if you're
in the NBA and divorce your wife, you might find that you will pay your ex
for years. However, I do not think most men to worry about this scenario.
The whole game changes if you have kids. The courts put children's needs
first. This usually means the mother will get custody of the children as
well as child support payments for children. These can be quite steep. And
if you fail to pay your child support, you'll end up in jail until you
manage to cough funds. Divorced men I spoke to say they are not a problem
spending money for the sake of their children, but they do not want the
benefit of women that eventually destroyed the marriage. Women know this
and rub it the salt in the wounds of their ex-husbands. I have seen women
on Instagram boast of how they spent their support check for children on
the new shoes.
Support can be an expensive and sometimes an unfair burden for men. But you
do not need to marry to feel the pain of child support for children. Simply
father of a child, so this is not really an argument against marriage.
4. Not enough quality women remain

Now we come to what I consider the most compelling reason to avoid getting
married: You need a choice. This has become a real problem in the modern
era.
There have always been men and women who are marriageable. Maybe they are
ugly, stupid, or have a network personality. For the sake of argument,
assume that in 1950, 10% of men and women were marriageable. It remains
about 90% of men chasing the same number of women as men chances were
pretty good.
The situation has changed. Immoral climate has reduced the standards for
men and women, but the quality of women were disproportionately affected by
obesity, the adoption of SJW beliefs and become sluts. It is obviously not
scientific, but now we have more men chasing fewer women.
Because women are hypergamous, they look for quality of most males. This
means that men who have sex less than market value will have to choose:
Marries a fatty carousel rider or remain single. As in the animal kingdom
the alpha males win this game while the lower betas end up being the losers.
wedding favor Reasons
While there are reasons why you might avoid marriage in our post-modern
age, there are still many reasons why harness is still common sense.
1. It is the best environment for raising children
Bruce Lee martial arts teach his son.
Yes, you might have children out of wedlock with your girlfriend live in,
but you end up having to explain to your children why you do not think
highly enough of their mother to put a ring on it. Just live together also
makes it easier to leave when things are difficult and it inevitably does
in all relationships. But if the couple separates, you are back to single
motherhood that all research indicates is terrible for the future of
children.
2. It is the only way to build a dynasty

Throughout history, the dynastic succession was considered as the
legitimate heirs. bastard son were excluded. This is because men have a low
level to which they are going to hit, but a high level who they will marry.
Children father with your wife will bear your name. More importantly, they
will be raised by you and your wife, allowing you to make the biggest
impression on your children. You do not have the same effect with different
bastards you could father.
3. Being married is good for men

Despite what you may have heard, married men generally have more sex than
single men. It is always easier to have sex with the woman you sleep next
to every night to go to the bar a few nights a week looking for a one night
stand. And aside sex, good women really love and care for their husbands.
The love of a good woman is something to cherish.
Conclusion
Marriage is the foundation of civilization. Without it, chaos will
eventually overcome society. Therefore, men should still aim to marry, even
if modern society has made that difficult by corrupting our women. The
trick to winning on the marriage market is difficult to be a high quality
man. The best way to do this is to engage in continuous self-improvement
and taking you to high standards.
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