The clarion call for future players and pick up artists is a familiar & #
8212; & # 8216; approach, approach, approach & # 8217 !; All very well in
theory it sounds good, but what about those situations that are
particularly socially awkward? Say a girl is surrounded by other club guy.
Or do you place on a busy subway car. Or it may be shopping with her
mother. In such situations, even the most committed of pirates Poon is
likely to take a step back, doubting his ability to step forward with
confidence and do what needs to be done. So what are the factors you should
consider when this occurs and what are the best steps for you to take?
Assess
First, it is very important to calculate the solution to this simple
equation & # 8212; this factor does the girl's Hotness outweigh the
potentially negative social consequences? If the girl is really hot, then
yes of course, you have to go for it. If it is a bit simple, however, and
the social conditions really do conspire against you, then you might decide
that approach really is not worth it.
I think this is right. Apart from practice as a & # 8216; Bootcamp or
something like that, I wouldn t expect anyone in their mind to walk in a
group of scowling thugs motorcycle bar just to have a chance for their
less-than-stellar younger sister. Why would you bother?
That being said, it is also the man and be honest with yourself. If you are
a little intimidated by the then approach your assessment of the girl is
likely to be a bit of color by this. & # 8216; it is not really hot. Why
approach? It's sure to be better in the next bar & # 8217.
If you follow this line of reasoning all you will do is to disqualify you.
If it is Bangable & # 8212; namely, whether it was sitting on her bed naked
then you have sex with it & # 8212; then you should be true to yourself and
make a move.
The other problem with evaluation is paradoxical that the hotter it is, the
less you may be tempted to approach him anyway, regardless of the social
situation. So if you see a blond 9.5 surrounded by buff guys in tuxedos at
a swish celebrity party, even if you are very attracted to it you are
likely to bottle unless you are mentally prepared and you strengthened
first.
evade
One way around this problem is the escape. By circumventing the problem
that you approach yet, but expect a more convenient time, perhaps when the
girl goes to the bathroom, leaving his friends, going for a cigarette or
other.
Again, the key here is really self-honesty. Only you know if you are on
pussying (which you should not be t) or simply waiting for a more optimal
window to deliver your game.
It's no shame to wait a while. I've done many times and s worked. There are
drawbacks, however. The first is that you do not know if this the right
time will never occur. Maybe she will talk to her friends for an hour, then
they'll all go together, in this case, your chance will be gone for good.
The other drawback is that the longer you wait to talk to him as big a deal
as you make your mind up late, you can find intimidated to actually do
anyway.
Dark
The third option is simply to say damn the consequences and go to approach
anyway. While you should always use your common sense and weigh the
potential risk versus reward, however, it behooves us all to embrace the
mentality of the red pill and go for what we want without apology. To do
this, however, you have to get your first mindset sorted. To do this, you
will need to navigate it is precisely the approach to others that you
really afraid and face front.
The most important thing you must keep in mind, and that really helped me
get on my own anxiety of approach is simply that there is no such thing as
a consensus. Let face it, every time you do anything in front of a group of
people your biggest fear is rejection. Of course, this goes back to the
primary concerns about the potentially deadly consequences of being pushed
by the tribe.
Aware, however: & # 8216; the tribe existed there long, long time to a much
simpler time. These days there is no tribe, or more precisely, there are a
myriad of tribes, each with conflicting concerns, ideologies and desires.
For this reason, a group of people you come down on will be radically
different from each other and think of different things from each other. So
when you approach this cute girl in front of a bunch of guys, they have a
variety of very different reactions.
Some just won t care. Others, yes, perhaps the White Knights, simmering and
irritated at your temerity. But others will still be future players who are
secretly impressed. So the idea that really scares you & # 8212; that all
this mass of people will turn against you just to approach, is incorrect
The second thing to understand is that even though people are under some
way to have your approach, the probability of doing anything or saying
anything is exceptionally low. Most people have their own & # 8216;
approach anxiety and don t attract attention to themselves by participating
in any public situation, they don t have to.
That being the case, all you're really having perhaps few people jokingly
under their breath. But the majority aren t going to step and spoil your
interaction.
For even more against it, you must create a bubble between you and the girl
when approaching. The way you do this is actually quite simple. When you
walk in it, imagine that you have a vision of the tunnel for all you can
see if, and only you and him in the neighborhood, and throughout the
universe. Ruthlessly excluded or disregard of anything to the contrary.
outside distractions are not relevant. All that s is important that you and
her.
Be disciplined. Do not let anything interfere. Walk up to her and talk. You
deserve your time with it and you'll have if you reach out and take.
Believe me, that you had the courage to tackle as improve its perception of
you exponentially.
N If it does work, if she rejects you, then? It really doesn t matter. No
one will say anything, walk away and soon you will not be there at all, and
those who have observed you will be just a memory. You will never know what
they really thought and he won t matter anyway, because you'll never see
them again. But you might be a reasonable amount of money more than them
were secretly impressed by your boldness and courage.
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