Exclusivity will always be the name of the game. As I write this from a
cafe in Wroclaw, Poland (the first European city that I never went to), I
realize now that if you want to continue search, you must look for new
destinations. You have to move to places to patronize upscale that keep the
riffraff.
Why guys are going to places such as Wroclaw? For the pretty Polish girls
and vodka, of course. But things have changed dramatically since 2014.
Roosh and I detailed it in a podcast, and I've written about this before,
too.
In 2014, a weekend evening, I walked into a club with a friend. We were the
only guys in there, and we were surrounded by 20 girls. Almost all had
dresses and heels. This weekend, I went to a club, and most of them had
given up heels and dresses for jeans and Chuck Taylors baggy. There were
five boys for every girl. Talk about a 180.
What changed?
Well, the girls go out less now, for sure. The explosion of online dating
game has changed this drastically. Now you can use a club as an excellent
measure of the health of a sexual market really is.
If the girls are going to meet a man, which is great for guys. And in fact,
it is ideal for girls and # 8212; it keeps their egos in check over & #
8212; at least compared to the gigantic mountains where they currently
reside. Today, however, a girl gets all the options it could ever need (and
more) of its smartphone.
I could sit here and complain, but it's better to move forward. How? While
looking for places that are more exclusive. Too many guys have an abundance
mentality with women (or at least they preach). But still, they do not have
the same abundance mentality money. I realize now, I used to be one of
those guys.
$ 10 cover? Too expensive.
Drinks that are 25% more than the "usual" places? Pass.
I tried to change this state of mind recently because I have realized the
benefits of it. Rather than trying to play with everyone, I'd pay much
better extra charges and be part of the exclusive crowd rather than the low
end. It takes a certain age, experience and general fatigue with how things
have changed for reaching this conclusion & # 8212; in my case, many years.
Can you still play?
Of course you can. But it is the question of enjoyment. By human nature, we
want what we can t have. So when a girl approached dozens of times in an
hour, it's much less likely to turn the next guy. Conversely, if the girls
outnumber boys, she knows she must give everyone a chance to get what she
seeks it.
In addition, in ancient times (ie 2014), the girls would actually go to
clubs to meet a man for a relationship. Until the smartphone app scene
encounter took off, their only options to meet a guy were to work, social
circle, or old school from the Internet when you had actually sending a
message. If none of them were of the options, the girls go out to clubs
occasions.
There's just something about being surrounded by hundreds of other guys all
vying for the attention of the girls who most people. Even the best players
in the world have this wear on them over time. I wish I could say that I
have found a solution for power supply by & # 8212; but I haven t. Other
than buying your way and out of the septic tank.
But the girls?
We all know that the girl money management skills and financial planning
are sluggish at best. It would be a fair assumption that cover charges and
expensive drinks deter some women from entering these places.
Of course it's going to vary from place to place. Even in places like Las
Vegas, sometimes cover the costs for girls are north of $ 50 (while $ 100 +
for guys). But the hottest hot girls usually find a way or another to get
into these places & # 8212; it has the advantage to filter out substandard
girls too. upscale places want the hottest girls & # 8212; it's the
Lamborghini equivalent of parking in front of the valet hotel room. It
indicates the state.
In addition, the girls want a winner. The highest quality girls know their
value, and usually won t settle for anything less than a man of great
value. Girls in 2017 are still to this day, until, so why you see so many
whales land with relatively attractive dudes. Now that we know that hot
girls will still fill these places, the simple solution to the problem of
overgrown nightgame and is moving just in life.
So the next time you are and you're bitching about the $ 10 cover charge,
re-think perhaps that philosophy. $ 10 is all that stands in the way of you
and meet the best girls that only the best guys have access. Everyone is
behind.
And if you do not have $ 10? Well it's time to increase the abundance of
money and more women. And until you do, it's safe to say that nightgame
will continue to get more difficult and less enjoyable for you.
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