Here are three main factors behind the widely successful with women. One is
not enough; a man needs a certain degree of all. These have been identified
after 20 years of experiences with women, since I did with a girl like
Casanova, aged 12 years aspiring outside a nightclub.
I also observed many other men in my social network, some of which are very
successful and some are just the opposite, and needless to say also taken
into account all the play equipment on ROK and elsewhere that I came to
through. Hopefully this effort can help identify to guide other men and to
initiate discussion some of the most important factors.
1. Looks
With a look I refer to the whole of the opposite spectrum, size, body
composition, hair, style of dress, grooming and hygiene. Although looks are
largely influenced by genes, they are also malleable portion.
For example, a person who is critically short & # 8211; at least in major
countries such as the Netherlands, UK and Denmark & # 8211; can use
stretching exercises and some insoles to add two inches (authentic and
inauthentic). With a diet program and long-term exercise, a person can look
like an Olympian. Anyone with an average income can buy a Calvin Klein suit
and shoes while cool weather.
Also partly contextual glances over and a matter of degree. The athletic
short blond guy in the Netherlands who do not do well with the women of the
region can be similar to a star in Japan or Colombia. Also in the country
there is a lot of variance because tastes differ.
As for the game there is a strong relationship against feedback between
inside and out. With some muscles, body fat, fresh outfits and hair colors,
even against nature, a person can do it much better if he has not done all
this to maximize its potential. This in turn makes it more objectively look
in the eyes of most viewers, and he will think that he deserves a better
quality and quantity perhaps higher than women.
Whatever the item that is most important, how it feels inside or how others
look at you, I do not remember the time that I slept with anything better
than six or seven when my body percentage is too high (rather bulky than
fat). While looks are not enough as an isolated factor if it helps to get
direct and free access for attractive girls.
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2. trust
Regarding internal and external feedback loops, often seems overlapping
confidence. Better a person looks, the more confidence, although this is a
half truth because a lot of guys who have decent looking only moderate
confidence or, in some cases, less than that. As with the appearance there
is rarely absolute in this regard, but is a matter of degree: it is more or
less confident. Trust is perhaps the factor that happens more frequently on
and off and thus is less stable than many other factors. As VO2 max, it
must be almost constantly maintained.
However, it really matters, for the simple reason that a guy will rarely
chased by girls, even if it looks good. He could get more IOI (indicators
of interest) that an average person to research, but is still insufficient.
Trust is also a comparative advantage and therefore being irrationally
self-confident could be a decisive factor.
, Most nevertheless establishes & # 8211; and kissing, phone numbers and
dates & # 8211; come to trust. Sometimes it is only a small degree that
makes the difference, for example to approach a cold call anyone after the
first meeting (these less frequent days) or kiss a girl in an appropriate
time, but we can not be without it.
3. Determination
The third major factor that I put forward is determination. How many times
have you avoided not to approach a girl in a bar, club or in public because
of lack of determination? Certainly this phenomenon recovers confidence,
but not enough to explain either success or failure in this regard. For
example, we can do many things that are not completely confident to do so.
When I tried skydiving in Australia, I did not feel confident at all but I
did it because I was determined to do it.
The same is the case with girls. One can feel more or less confident in,
and get more or less external validation of others, but must still be
determined to make an effort, be it small or large. Sometimes it happens
almost spontaneously, but many times you almost have to force yourself to
do something uncomfortable, as several cold approaches. But it can often
exceed these types of interactions and simply means living hours of crap.
For example, I have a ambivert personality and can easily fit in the
writing, reading, work and exercise and just do an online game before I
feel compelled to get back on the wet track after months of drought. Then I
will be much more willing to use, for example, the Machiavellian cunning in
order to be on the score board once again, for example to pretend to be
right-left pseudo-connect with a Swedish slut I have little in common with.
Always when I feel that I must realize that I am willing to use more of it.
For example, I often guess I intend to stay longer than a few weeks when
I'm in Asia so the girls will not activate their shield anti-slut defense,
which help to increase my number of first order . My current girlfriend is
the result of the determination, combined with looks and confidence (and
other factors).
In addition, many of the efforts for self-improvement are related to the
determination. It may be to train six times a week, eat strictly, make the
best photos you use it online and buy these clothes and shoes that could
make the difference in a very competitive market sexual. Or to be more
sociable than you sometimes feel at a given moment. It is even more
important that the dark triad, although it could be the case that your
personality profile in part behind your behavior, including the
determination. subclinical narcissism is linked to mental strength.
The underlying factor in all these cases is always determination. Sometimes
you're not ready to make a lot of effort for girls, for whatever reason.
Perhaps you are already on a roll and do not care about each other, or are
on a roll and have lost track of the efforts behind the success of the
relative stake. Sometimes you lack motivation. Nevertheless, the
determination is crucial.
Conclusion
As I mentioned in the introduction, there are a variety of factors
involved. At best, one can unravel the main factors, but even those who are
rarely more general largely individuals preachers, not all. I still think
that these three are the largest such, and I myself and my two decades of
interaction with (a) & # fairer sex 8211; combined with multiple
observations of other people & # 8211; is proof.
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