Wednesday, August 23, 2017

How "Constructive ambiguity" can help improve your game

In seduction, as well as in business and politics, it is a huge mistake to
show your hand too early. If you want to sleep with hot girls and # 8212,
and especially if you want to keep after & # 8212; it is essential that you
practice & # 8216; constructive ambiguity & # 8217;.
The clusterfuck is Brexit is the gift that keeps on giving here in the U.K.
now. Many right were thrilled at the last June we voted to leave the
European Union, regarding as a modern peasant uprising against the
bureaucracy and formalities imposed by Brussels, and recovery of British
sovereignty.
It is becoming more difficult, but even for the most ardent & # 8216; & #
8217 Leaver; find much to admire in the Conservative governments and #
8217; handling this complex process. I'll spare you the details of our
embarrassment on the world stage, as it has been well documented elsewhere,
but suffice it to say that Britain seems to be undecided about what he
hopes to achieve, underprepared and naive at the table negotiation.
With Theresa May head of a minority government supported by an alliance
with the DUP, and with loud voices on the left (and right) who wish to
derail the whole process Brexit, we have a few interesting months we expect
when summer vacation comes to an end.
Although I am not a fan of David Davis, our bumbling and secretary
allegedly alcoholic Brexit, the leading man our negotiations, he said
something that has recently made a lot of sense.
You will find difficult to read what we intend. This is deliberate. I fear
that in negotiations you have constructive ambiguity from time to time.
In that Davis is quite right. For if he and his team have received a huge
amount of criticism in the media, both in the UK and around the world for
their management of the process, it is quite correct to suggest that
allowing the opponent to have full view of & # 8216; hand from the start
would be ridiculous.
constructive ambiguity
David Davis being constructively ambiguous yesterday.
The phrase & # 8216; constructive ambiguity was awarded to Henry Kissinger,
said to be a foremost exponent of the art. It is also reflected in Robert
Greene's third law of power Conceal your intentions & # 8217; and also in
his fourth, & # 8216; Always Say less necessary and # 8217;.
Less generously, constructive ambiguity was called & # 8216; Rigging & #
8217; & # 8212; which is to be deliberately vague in a use of language to
obscure a complex issue.
In the case of the British government, it is difficult to say whether
constructive ambiguity is actually used as a deliberate strategy, or are
simply struggling trying to deliver the impossible: a complete divorce of
the EU bloc to appease Eurosceptics while keeping main advantages of
membership to ensure doesn t our economy falling off a cliff in April 2019.
Presumably this will become clear in time. But on a personal level,
constructive ambiguity can be an extremely valuable tool, both in the game
and in life.
constructive ambiguity with hot girls
A hot young European girl considering Britain Brexit negotiating position
In pickup, the player who is the most ambiguous about his intentions is the
most intriguing and thus enjoy the hottest women. Does this mean you have
indirectly approaching and hide your sexual nature? Not at all.
constructive ambiguity is absolutely not incompatible with being upfront to
want sex with her. The mindset you need to adopt is as follows:
I'm a man, and follows so of course I try to sleep with hot young women.
This is a fact and I possess. Nevertheless, I have multiple sexual options
and I remain ambiguous about my intentions about commitment.
When I approach a girl I want to say very clearly that I am a sexual being,
I see this as a man-woman interaction and I'm interested in it primarily as
a sexual perspective. I don t say I said this in a clumsy way, but it is
involved in all aspects of my presentation of my eye contact with her for
the tone of my voice, my body language, the use of touch and soon.
Ambiguity around being a dominant man who wants sex and not afraid to show
it is anathema to women and take you directly to the Friendzone.
However, ambiguity about your intentions with this particular girl is
dynamite and become addicted. Yes, you smash it goes without question. But
also, you are able and willing to walk since you have so many other
options. This is between teasing itself.
I often open with something like & # 8216; Hey, you & # 8217 re cute. But I
will immediately override it with a takedown of some sort, something
teasing and difficult. I want her to realize that at this stage I & # 8217;
m & # 8216; & # 8217 just navigation;. Yes, it is an interesting option,
but now that's all it is & # 8212; an option. And with many others waiting
in the wings, I'm more than happy to withdraw without problems.
Once you slept together, you must continue with the same strategy (if you
want to keep around is like a friend with benefits or girlfriend). Don t be
too pressed. Don t answer his texts too quickly. When you answer, write it
always lower. Don t drop your plans in his name. Be sometimes unavailable.
Don t talk about your feelings. Never start the & # 8216; we also boyfriend
and girlfriend & # 8217 ?; conversation: let.
By all means light the flame with a direct approach if you want, but once
you've done that use constructive ambiguity to keep her guessing, to keep
his excitement and intrigue. As it becomes increasingly clear that the UK
outlook in the short and medium term outside the EU are economically dark,
so that our conjecture that we don t opponents have options and can
continue to screw us royally on Brexit . You don t have the disadvantage of
the world on you s trained media to maintain your mystery at all costs.
Always remember, if you are an open book and then leave the library with
another.
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