Let me start by declaring, one of the most exciting and dynamic discussions
in the progression of the day the game is direct benefits compared to
circling styles. More or less is the difference between you openly affirm
your sexual-romantic desires at the beginning or do so at a later time.
Indirect allows more or passive stress socialization because it does not
pass an ultimatum on ladyfriend stroke (ie either a reciprocating sexual
intentionality or reject), but at the same time, it leaves you more
susceptible to stagnation social. In opposition, Direct offers you the
opportunity to promote an attractive confident portrait of yourself in the
woman's mind, but can also leave you open to the unfavorable situation to
detach aggressively arrogant, and losing short term that you might
otherwise acquired.
To properly describe the optimal day game 'technical', we must make a finer
distinction of how direct / indirect approaches appear when practiced in
daily life. Therefore, we must conceptually separate and individually
evaluate the two main forms of verbal human communication in relation to
know body language language, particularly with regard to their direct and
indirect manifestations worldwide.
When dealing with the entanglement of these types of human interactions, it
is imperative that we keep in mind the social context in which they occur.
And for the game day in a casual setting such as class, or coffee, or just
plain worn on the foot, it is necessary to adapt the characteristics of a
game to complete the circumstance at hand.
It breaks down like this. If your game is missing or "one-dimensional" (all
direct or indirect i.e. all), you are very likely to let loose chicks
falling into one of two extreme pussy, Wussiness or repel Douchebaggery.
Overall, if the girl thinks you are either weak (physically, financially or
socially) or conversely an unpleasantly rude or crude person to speak, you
have probably not getting laid. So the question is how we synthesize a
softer (but simultaneously) strategy commander at the proverbial cold
approach that can be applied with confidence, in full sun, in a majority of
interactions routine?
After a great deal of thought and an even higher amount in the area,
controlled against placebo, single-blind studies divided between the age of
17-25 25,000 women living my university, I came to see very clear that the
use of a two-party body language policy directly coupled with the indirect
verbal language provides the tactical world of the most effective day of
play. Now you may ask why I am so confident in this particular mode of
attack, well, the logic goes like this & # 8230;
Body Language Direct
Let me start with the "nuances" that you use to communicate, subtle yet
powerful physical actions and attributes that you use to tell a woman that
you are ready, able and interested. This is the foundation of your game and
extremely important, as it can either solidify the smooth and sensual
movement you just made, or it can wriggle and you sweat in a lake that
quickly downs changes acquisition vaginally .
Therefore, the first thing to keep in mind may be better captured from a
line Samuel L. Jackson in the end scene from Pulp Fiction, "& # 8230 ;. And
when you do, you do cool "Staying loose and relaxed is the starting point
for any well-made communication. It shows that you are someone who is in
his early comfort zone, and to be in conversation with the new and
attractive women. Without this cold you'll soon be fried, but be calm,
cool, and white is not the end of the story if what you really want is the
maximum results.
Buy the saying, "add a little edge. This is in addition to head high, with
good posture, smiling comfortably, eye contact strong and confident, and
did not seem excited, you should take a step further. This small, not my
friends, is the tactile barrier.
He was approached by many before me and is a very effective way to directly
confirm your physical intentions without saying a word. Of course, above
all, be tactful. You need the act of communicating the safety, security and
masculinity, not sleaziness (not yet anyway). Remember that the first hit
must be strong, but mostly platonic in nature. Depending on the
environment, even a solid handshake is better than no touch at all. If you
are too low or markedly aggressive, you will lose most likely white tail.
In short, you need to regularly hold a strong physical presence, you need
to literally there with a solid foundation of trust and maintain your land
with pride and determination, it is the first half to build yourself a
optimal day game.
Indirect verbal language
Again, as with the game in general, and with the game day in particular, it
is absolutely essential to keep in mind the kind of environment in which
you work. Let me paint the scene. You have a quick lunch at a local cafe
and sandwich eat a delicious BLT with San Francisco sourdough, creamy Mayo,
crisp lettuce and bacon bellies hickory so thick they might as well be mini
pork chops, when you notice a knockout. I mean a damn knockout. Like hell.
Now, unfortunately, your first impulse may be to launch a social assault on
it with some overzealous comments on how beautiful she is astoundingly, how
you've never seen anyone like her before, and how you would beyond the
honor wasting your hard earned money to pay for his drink induced
debauchery night. Or, you can enter the road to the other ditch. This is,
unfortunately, your first impulse is more or less & # 8216; & # 8217
closed;, start to sweat, and never your ass on the seat first. It does not
take a social navigation prodigy to see that these two extremes let you
piss in a poor position of the exit.
Here's where the indirect verbal language really shines. Here is where the
middle way (as the Buddha would say) can reach its full potential. Now what
do I mean exactly by indirect language? I mean, probably initiating and
leading most of the time, a small but interesting conversation regarding
almost any subject in addition to your physical desire for women hand. As
simple as that. This conversation would center around the building you are
in, the food you had, the events of the city, local sports teams and
artists, interesting leisure and social activities, or a mixture of
mishmash of all the above .
This last part is hard, but all you have to do is try. It's like my old man
used to say Look where you want to go & # 8221. It the same with women as
with driving, like life in general. Just take for the ride.
More: Direct vs. indirect game: What is really better when you approach a
beautiful girl?
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