You do not need me to tell you how important communication is every day of
your life. Those who are able to communicate succinctly and schmoozing
effective are usually the people who are able to succeed in their
respective fields, while those who can not communicate effectively will at
best be busy little bees who make a decent living (but not great) living
wage technically and serving ably skilled communicators.
Knowing this, you should also keep in mind that day to communicate daily
can be roughly 50-50 between verbal language and body language clues. And
because the body language, by definition, involves the alignment and
proprioception of the human body, which is something I am qualified to
speak.
your body movements can reveal how you feel yourself and others, and what
you're planning to do. A person who understands body language has all the
advantages in terms of interpersonal communication. More importantly, they
can transmit the message and the image of yourself that you want to pass on
to others, and on some occasions require you to take a certain mood.
It's enough to write a book solely on body language (and in fact, many
people have), but of course, because you are a man, you probably want to
create a body language that is strong and masculine dominant and to avoid
the submission and shrinking body language that you probably're doing.
The first thing to remember with body language is that no gesture, pose,
and facial expression alone conveys a message. It should be taken in the
context of all the other body parts. Practice in the mirror slowly and with
control, so you can speed up when you need to use them in interpersonal
communication.
Since we want to establish dominance 24/7, this article will be the first
of several looking at each area of the body and analyze how you can
present the strong body language to her.
The head
The position of your head is very important to convey emotion. It can
reveal attitudes that replace the word, and to support or challenge what
your mouth says. You may already know this (indeed, intuitively you have a
basic knowledge of body language).
If you tilt your head back a little (think the term nose in the air) it
seems arrogant. If you push your chin forward, it seems pugnacious. When
your name is announced in praise, you naturally raise your head. When you
want people to pay attention to you, your head comes up. So if you want to
look hard, you want to avoid having a chin down and a drooping head,
avoiding the nose up and pushing jaw outward from the arrogant man.
A steady, level head seems to affirm and strong without being snobby and
try hard & # 8221;. Avoid turning the head (in other words, maintain eye
contact) and looking to shoulder, since it was shown as a sign of strength
and confidence someone is faking. The key is to maintain eye contact,
flatness and symmetry to describe this kind of & # 8221 fresh confidence.
Essentially, you want to do exactly the opposite of what
The face
Probably the most important part of the body language, the face should
focus on, especially the eyes and lips. Look at a man's eyes, he can not
hide in there & # 8221; and all that.
As a side note, watching the face is also a fairly reliable way to know if
a woman is attracted to you, but we want to deal with the language of the
male body, and how different face of the ports can 'affect.
Eye contact is generally good, but sometimes it's uncomfortable when the
other person is dishonest or angry. The comfort of eye contact depends on
the way they look or you don t look. Keep in mind that if you need to make
someone uncomfortable. Know that interest has beautiful eye contact dilated
pupils, and & # 8221 angry; eye contact is dilated pupils. You can not
control it (unless you're a 16th century with belladonna hooker in a
dropper for the eyes), so just consider it.
Also keep in mind that in some countries, prolonged eye contact is
considered rude. In general, every time you talk to them, or they talk
about you, maintain eye contact. When they look away at something, you do
the same.
Eye contact can of course be used to show dominance. dominant eye movements
are sustained, slow and smooth. Those in control of the interaction showed
their dominance by choosing when and how to look at the audience, and the
best way to be seen as strong and dominant is slightly reduce the eye and
give a long sustained gaze.
Ironically, the removal of eye contact in controlled episodes can really
enhance the rule. Example: reprimanding someone, take your eye contact away
for a bit, to get their levels of anxiety, and then give them the look. By
diverting someone's eyes, combined with a strong voice and posture, gives
the idea of you're not worthy of me & # 8221. And of course, if you
really want to annoy someone, just look in their soul directly into the eye
without flinching.
Lips
The masculine man does not give a constantly grinning like a goof. It keeps
a stone face for most of the day. The eyes are open or neutral semi-squint
and the mouth is a straight line.
I'm not saying that you should always be austere and unhappy. By all means,
be exuberant in, any donation t constantly looking happy. A smile is worth
more if it's given sparingly instead of giving to everyone.
Two types of smile. On the left, a real smile squints, right a fake smile
is simply a movement of the mouth
Conclusion
In general, the idea that you want to achieve is to not be too open with
your facial expression & # 8221;, stay tight and in control, but not so
tight that shows anger or holding anger . If you feel the need to smile,
realizing that a real smile squints, whereas a fake smile doesn t. Use your
smiles sparingly, and give a serious one when it is necessary to do so.
This makes you much more endearing than being a typical fake smile company
douchebag.
Complicated? It is a little, the only way to learn is to practice in the
mirror, and make a conscious effort to observe in your daily relationships.
But once you have mastered the body language of the face, the real body can
be undertaken.
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