One of the many reasons why guys avoid night games is that they are tired
after a hard days work. Although it has an absolute sense, it is understood
that fatigue is not in itself an obstacle to the creation of attraction and
made with hot girls. In fact, sometimes it can really help your cause.
The key to any game and night game in particular, does not mind too much.
To put it bluntly, the more you care, the less you're likely to get laid.
Why? Because when you give it a damn what happens with a particular
interaction you unconsciously telegraph it to the girl, who see you as
needy or desperate.
Another major challenge with the night game is timing. If you meet a girl
you have a great chemistry with too early in the evening, then it can be a
boost to your confidence. You might get a little excited, thinking that
your job is almost done. In fact, you now have a problem: you take this
girl as an adhesive for the rest of the night and the risk that resembles a
disputed no other options; or let you, saying his boys will meet later, and
risk were towed by another guy in the meantime?
There's no definitive answer. Sure, you can try out the club there and
then, but often it won t fly as she can be with friends, or she's paying a
cover charge and wants to see a particular DJ or whatever. You can take him
to the bathroom, but again the won t always work.
Ultimately, the best way around this is to talk to the girls passing all
night, but only fix on a particular target towards the end when you will
both probably leave before too long anyway. In this way, the attraction
will be at its height right when he s hometime. Then your occasional
suggestion how about we share a taxi will probably go much better than if
you tried earlier.
This is where fatigue can play in your favor, because if you're at your
worse in need at a time when it is most ready to be fired so he's much more
likely you're going to achieve the result you want.
A Night Out in Berlin
When you go to game night then your evening will go through a number of
predictable phases. Here's how it was for me when I went to Berlin a place
the other night.
When I arrived at the club it's probably I'll be a little socially
inhibited. Certainly this was the case in Berlin. I hadn t been for a while
and I hadn t even do many day game (which will really help your
interactions night by the way), so I was rusty.
To overcome this, I decided to walk around and just say & # 8216; & # 8217
hello; to all the girls that came in my way. Nothing more or less, just & #
8216; & # 8217 hello.
At first my voice was quiet and I n t get much traction. But as I walked
around and talked to more and more people (including some of the guys), and
the music began to build in the background, I found myself relaxing and
gain confidence .
Now, my interactions with the girls lasted longer. I progressed to just say
hello to introduce myself, and then spieling my usual crap: You look
dangerous & # 8221; My mother warned me against girls like you & # 8221;,
I'm just an English gentleman innocent & # 8221; and so on. In general,
accusing them of being sexual predators seeking to devour me.
The thing about night game is that it doesn t really matter too much what
you say as long as (a) it is not deep or serious, (b) s teasing and funny
and (c) you are always prudent to carry out interaction in a sexual
direction.
My strategy worked. I am much IOIs girls, longer interaction and some
makeouts (including with lovely Austrian girl wearing just underwear red
Don. T & # 8212 request, which is Berlin we're talking).
Magic Sweet Spot
From there, as the night wore on, two things happened. First, my confidence
was growing all the time because of the positive feedback I received.
Second, I became more tired, I am less concerned about what I say, myself
less filtered and just said the first thing that came into my head when I
was talking to a girl.
This is the magical sweet spot you want to go on a night out in a club.
It's hard to describe precisely, but basically you should feel completely
in harmony with the insanity of your environment: you should feel
completely comfortable with allowing the same madness infuse your own
behavior and interactions .
You must also be independent results. You don t care if you get the girl or
not because you like to happily go home and sleep. As such you really don t
give a damn what you say. It doesn t have the same meaning.
And when you think about it, it accurately reflects the default setting of
alpha douchebag who has endless options. It doesn t give a shit if he gets
the girl or not. And it doesn t filter is when he talks about it.
Remember: all the success in the game comes in the wake of non-neediness.
Any failure in the game comes as a result of too much concern about the
outcome.
At the end of my night in Berlin, I got to talk to another Austrian cute
girl. Now I'm out of my mind with fatigue and I didn t really did not care.
Why do you travel so often in Berlin & # 8221 ?; she asked.
It s. . . I do not know, it & # 8221 complex; I have said. I don t have
the mental capacity or inclination to think about anything cocky-funny.
then sort, she said. And then she leaned forward, grabbed me by the neck
and started to do with me.
& # 8216; & # 8217 tight; and intelligent conversation have their place,
but they can also look try hard. The truth is cons-intuitive as a fatigue
nightclub environment, do not give a damn and semi-literate statements can
do wonders in getting you with hot girls made.
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