All those who tried play in more than one form (day game, night game,
online game, social circle game, etc.) are aware that game day has a
particularly low return on investment (ROI ).
Although his advocacy try painting day game as a walk in the park (perhaps
literally) nt where you have to deal with drunkenness, or cockblocks AMOGs,
reality, like most men who have tried attest , that it is his version. A
grind to get the phone number and a grind to make something meaningful
occurs accordingly. Even some of the best players in the world reported a
conversion rate of only about 11%. Why is this the case and what should you
do to improve your chances?
The game day of reason can provide some tangible benefits to working hours
is simple: all comes down to a lack of confidence. In fact, a lack of trust
that is built in the day game model itself. Put simply, day game requires
you to walk up to a woman you have never met before in a context quite
randomly, talk to him for a few moments, and hope to seduce accordingly.
When put like that, is it any wonder that the social circle and even game
night tend to produce faster and more prolific results? The act of cold
approach in the day is socially unusual and a great demand for the girls to
go with.
Terms of trust
This week, I attended a lecture by the British journalist and author Ian
Leslie, who has written several books, including Born Liars on the subject
of lying in the & # 8216; after the truth era. It was an event of the
advertising industry, and Leslie was there to discuss the notion of trust
regarding the brand marketing of their products and services. More simply,
trust in large companies is lowest at this time all the time. Just look at
the respective reputations of Uber and Ryanair in the UK at the time to see.
Leslie wanted to talk about what he called the necessary & # 8216;
conditions for trust & # 8217;. These could apply to advertising, but also
friendship, business, diplomacy between nations, and everything in between.
The conditions he names are:
Time
Consistency
Ritual
What does it mean when you think about it in an interpersonal perspective.
Well, if you spend much time with someone, if they are compatible with you
in terms of their contact, and indeed, if the indicator becomes a ritual
for you, then you are much more likely to feel the truth t them if someone
doesn of these conditions apply.
Perhaps not surprisingly, this is also true when applied to dynamic
intergender. There is some time I conducted an experiment where I got cold
100 game approaches in a month. At the same time I was also doing social
circle and game night also approaches.
Thank you for this effort, I managed to get set abundance. But what was
most interesting is that the girls I slept with are not, overall, the game
day I committed, although it was where was gone most of my efforts. No,
girls, I went to bed were largely social circle and night game.
Why could it be? Hopefully it's obvious if you were to follow so far. The
girls I met through social circle trust me because I met the three
necessary conditions. I had of course spent more time with them than girls
day game. I was consistent viewing (eg, a couple were girls work that I saw
every day). And there was the ritual involved in our meeting & # 8212; for
example, one of the girls I would meet secret cups of coffee in the canteen
every day at 16 o'clock.
Confidence is super important
In the game, we're so hooked on the attraction, attraction, attraction that
we tend to forget the trust (or comfort). I am not talking of trust in a
blue pill, hands around the world, Kumbaya-type way, but on a very low
level, it's got to trust that you are a normal guy who isn t going to turn
psycho on her or stalk her or another. And of course, this is much easier
when you are someone she sees regularly.
, As I have argued before, is the main problem with the game day & # 8212;
it s often grounded enough. It seems too artificial ish player. That is
why, even when you get a phone number, it's a good chance it flake. When
she's gone home and had time to think, it's every chance she (or one of his
friends) will revise its opinion on the value of the meeting with you.
prophecy acceptance
How to counter this? There are no easy answers. Did I say, though, that you
should avoid game day? Not at all. I did day game since the early 2000's
and I've got into through it lots of times, so it can certainly work, but
you have to keep confidence in mind when you go out. Yes, it's good to
appear as fluffy & # 8216; & # 8217 player; for the first few minutes. But
after a while you really need to remove a little and act normally as well.
Another concept that could help that Leslie was introduced us & # 8216; the
acceptance prophecy (The error Reign, Stinson et al, 2009). The idea here
is that there are optimists and pessimists social social, and the
loneliness of compounds. That being the case, if you are a social
pessimistic and you go thinking that nobody loves you then it is likely to
become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Also, if you decide that everyone is
happy to meet you then the opposite will occur.
On this basis, when you go to meet girls game day, always do so with the
mindset that she will love and welcome you in your approach. Just do it, it
will most likely you will get a positive response and this compound heat
the building and trust between the two of you. To further it's every girl
new approach is as if you d known it for years. If you refuse to accept the
part that you are & # 8216; the foreigners gathered in an unusual way then
she will feel more comfortable, and you are much more likely to generate
this precious trust that is so crucial for success.
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