However beautiful, Jacked, rich, or you are connected, it's an equalizer in
the game all the guys face: you need to be able to hold a conversation with
a girl. And not just a conversation & # 8212; you can t be boring, you need
to pique his interest, and you must create attraction while at the same
time not to look & # 8216; try hard & # 8217;. You must have a head start,
but you can not be too daunting or you will repel.
It is not easy to remove feat, and most guys fail at least some of the
time, but the fact is that no matter what other aces that you might take,
the better you can talk to the most successful women # 8212, measured in
the privacy & # 8212; you'll get.
When you first approach a girl, you may well be met with lack of interest,
or perhaps an encouragement half heart. Unless she's a girl so, who
welcomes you with great enthusiasm that you will not touch is a great help.
And after all, why should it help? It is your responsibility as the guy
dredge it, and not the reverse. More than you can improvise verbally with
little outside help, the better.
Fortunately, there are several ways that you can improve your conversation.
Here I list my top four.
1. reading
Reading is extremely important for a variety of reasons, but a peripheral
edge of the practice is that it helps to talk to girls in two ways.
First, if you read a lot, you will inevitably furnish your mind with a lot
of information that you can talk. So if you read a book, say, the sexual
dynamics between men and women in the 21st century, then you will be able
to steer conversations in this direction, then drop into the different
things you have learned. Reading makes you a more interesting person.
Secondly, reading widely develops both your vocabulary and your ability to
logically present a case. If you read such policy, so do pick you probably
only a few new words, but you will discover how sofa politicians their
arguments, how they evade the difficult questions and how they turn in
favor of subjects that correspond to their own best diaries . Reading about
them will be to help your conversation both a micro and meta level.
2. Writing
Writing using a similar manner. Talking to someone is to effectively
manipulate words to communicate information or emotion or both. Although
not a verbal, writing is still the practice of formatting language to
convey thoughts and feelings, which is exactly what you need to do when you
talk to a girl.
I am writing an article every day to my site and I did for a while. Before
I wrote almost every day too, for over a decade, although much of this work
has not been published. This daily commitment to writing really helped my
conversation skills, as that writing requires you to do (especially
writing, you know to be read by other people) is to form what could be
thought in somewhat amorphous language.
Write everyday also forces you to be creative. It requires you to be an
improviser, someone who picks topics out of the air and thrives on
entertainingly and sometimes long for his audience. It makes you
interesting angle for the colorful phrase that best sums turn you trying to
say. Again, these are all necessary and transferable skills to talk to
girls.
3.Podcasting or Vlogging
A more direct way to practice your conversation skills is to start a
podcast or Vlogging channel. I recorded a podcast every week and have only
recently started putting videos on YouTube.
It's amazing how strong your verbal faculties get when you force yourself
to go to the plate to create regular oral content that is pleasant for
others.
Even if you're not trying to build a content company or brand online, I
always recommend that you try one or the other of these forms & # 8212; or
both. Not only is it fun, but I guarantee that you will see your
conversation skills skyrocket accordingly.
The subject you choose to talk isn t really important. You might be giving
away your best tips on building IKEA furniture or playing Minecraft. What
matters is that you're used to standing in front of a microphone or a
camera and delivering your ideas in a coherent, clear and engaging.
4. Get a sales job
Much has been written about the parallels between sales and game already
that I am reluctant to add to yottabytes content already there. That said,
there is no doubt in my mind that the work of sales is absolute dynamite
since the improvement of the conversation (and social) skills is concerned.
After all the sales forces you to verbalize the specific benefits of a
product to a potential buyer that may or may not be interested. You also
need to deal with objections (shit tests) and continue to find new ways to
couch your argument when others would give up.
For these reasons, if you ever have the chance to work in sales, even for a
short period of time, I highly recommend that you do. Not only will really
help to dredge the girls, but you may well make some money too.
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