Previously, I described the outlines of an optimal profile of the
personality and highlighted what I consider the three crucial factors that
determine much of your dating success (looks, confidence and
determination). I also met the Kings Top game writer Troy Francis How to
book Being a Assh the * That Beautiful Women Love and partly linked my
arguments on the main idea.
The underlying concept is that the book Francis supposedly Tetrad Dark &
# 8212; Machiavellianism, narcissism, psychopathy and sadism & # 8212;
combined with positive standing of the rest of the male crowd is explosive
powder which is necessary to read the most attractive females.
I think it is a very sensible idea and often doesn t exclude the importance
of the three factors that I mentioned. In fact, it goes in many ways, like
a person's profile personality underlies much of its appearance, confidence
and determination. A bit of sadism brings that extra dimension in the room,
and perhaps the reason why the hottest women around stick.
However, for long-term relationships, some dark elements should be watered
at the expense of other more & # 8221 beta; features.
The importance of agreeableness, gregariousness, awareness and openness to
experience
Many of us may agree that a significant degree of dark features are
necessary in modern dating. They will also be required when seeking after a
more traditional woman. The man knows how Machiavellian view the sides that
are in his favor, and confident male that looks good and has the ambition
is an almost universal appeal to the opposite sex.
But in the long term relationship managers & # 8212; perhaps even a
mini-relationship & # 8212; with a fairly healthy woman, other parts are
also needed. Of course, you must continue to have scope, ambition, beauty,
and cunning, but a relationship is that mental games and wild sex. It is
the interpersonal intimacy, have fun, and show loyalty. For this, you need
the four personality traits of agreeableness, consciousness, gregariousness
and openness to experience, the first two mentioned are almost complete
opposites of dark Tetrad.
In order to connect with another human being, you need to be warm and
friendly, even gregarious (a facet of extraversion). To some extent your
partner is your friend, and you can do things that you and your best male
friend could do together, like meeting your respective family, friends,
having dinner, and travel. It is pretty obvious and it should not surprise
us to all who were in RLT and observed many others throughout life.
Also aspects of consciousness, as being reliable, having your finances in
order, and highlight the moral behavior of sound. These are all positive
characteristics. It is not more complicated than that you need some of
these things to have a normal life in the most delicate moments of
passionate sex, happy recreation and unforgettable excursions to various
locations throughout the world.
The latter is also linked to the opening and experience. You do not have to
manifest your intellectual prowess to your girlfriend, if it was not a
reason why you finish all first, but is open to new ideas from time to
time. You are still you, with a single essence, but new elements can be
positive for you and your partner. They can be both sexual and non-sexual.
Often, it's as easy as you suggest a place where you want to go, or
something you want to do and you do it together. To send a message to your
partner and convince your suggestion to be a man of some most optimal value
is not difficult. Being a leader, while at the same time a little open to
compromise and your partner's wishes. Women love men who know their urbane
around, and the men themselves out of love for her.
Conclusion
The dark Tetrad at an appropriate level, is a powerful tool that a man can
use to attract women in general and particularly as attractive. However, in
a long term relationship, the clearest dimensions are needed to counter the
dark features and create a balance in the successful kaleidoscope
representing most modern relationships. Indeed, human nature as such is
complex and variegated.
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