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Have you ever had a purpose in life, which seemed like it should have been
at your fingertips, but no matter how you want, or what you tried to do to
get it, he stayed terribly out of reached? As you would perhaps get in
shape, but it was an uphill battle to stick to your diet and exercise
program, or even if you did, it did not work?
Maybe you decided to make more friends and meet attractive women and
compatible, but you never felt like you've made progress. Many men feel
stuck in careers in dead end, but do not know how out of the rut they are.
Reading self-help books often do not help, nor do college courses. The type
of knowledge that makes you successful is not conscious or declarative in
nature, such as knowing that a dog is a mammal; it is deeper and more
constructive, like whether to bring a dog.
Have you ever wondered how success comes to some men who do not seem to be
smarter, more beautiful or talented you are, without adversity? It is
probably not due to a practical book they read, or class they took.
Here are two interesting facts:
Most self-made billionaires are not geniuses!
Most geniuses are not millionaires!
Now you're probably not ready to commit this life at personal sacrifice
that would probably be necessary to reach millionaire status, but the
multi-millionaire status does not require more discipline and good choices.
So if intelligence and raw talent are prerequisites for wealth in itself,
it is? Here is a short list:
Drive
A preparation of adaptation to change imposed from outside
A habit to initiate change rather than simply react to it
A personality that does not react to problems with the paralyzing emotions
A habit of making good choices at critical moments after weighing the costs
and benefits
You might reasonably assume that at least some of these features are more
or less genetic. The good news is that what you are born with, you can have
more by developing and Small changes make big differences downstream. Where
can you learn how to develop these traits? Well, probably not reading a
book on how to become rich, or by going to college. It seems that if the
university was really all that valuable, college graduates are more
uniformly successful in terms of prosperity, fulfillment and personal
happiness than they really are, even if they do not have connections to
enter a prestigious school.
Most of what you know, you learned unconsciously. You have not learned to
speak by your parents shoving a fork in front of your face and
saying "fork! Range! "Then to have to do the same for all the words you
have learned. You have unconsciously picked just hear people talking forks
and see the results without even paying conscious attention. Whenever you
hear the word, then seen or otherwise known object, your brain makes an
unconscious association between the two. Although you may have experienced
the frustration when you do not know how to express yourself, the process
of learning new vocabulary was itself effortlessly.
Trying to learn consciously, unconsciously against, makes it much more
difficult to learn a second language through formal classroom lessons or a
book. People often find they can not speak a language after years of course
but make rapid progress when they delve into some of the world where the
language is spoken. It is possible to simulate the same process with
courses that are designed very differently from traditional lessons, but
hardly anyone who designs languages realizes courses.
A better way to achieve success
The vast majority of what you know is the result of experience, not a
school marm babbling to you. Your success in life is the result of your
experiences in your studies. In fact, much of your success in formal
education is the result of your educational experience, not the content!
You might think that you are "not good" for a subject, when the real
problem is your associations unconsciously programmed to it. You probably
have more potential than you have already done; it is a development issue,
and to do so, you might need different programming you have had so far.
Much of your success in life depends on your overall habits of thought, and
they are influenced by your experiences. Suppose when you were a child, you
were slapped and yelled at accidents, honest mistakes, or take the
initiative without permission. Missing opportunities to build greater
emotional stability that adults around you, you would tend to react with
your own emotions, usually a combination of fear, anger or shame. The men
who had too many of those experiences that never grow accomplish great
things for fear of failure, or fear of acting without authorization.
Because men tend to not only hide their emotions, but often are actually
out of touch with them, they never notice how their paralyzing emotions are
sabotaging their success, like a fish does not notice the water . The wrong
kinds of experiences subconsciously programmed to chess. The right kinds of
experiences subconsciously programmed to succeed.
The experience through stories
If only there was a way to take better experiences than you actually have.
Well, there are stories ... are experiences vicariously. As long as you are
fully engaged in them, is to treat your brain as experiments.
Reading stories also helps develop precision capability 2 guess other
people's thoughts, emotions and motives, and to detect lies. This is useful
for getting along with others, including in corporate cutthroat
environments.
The men are disadvantaged for playback in part because of the relative
scarcity of fiction specifically tailored to the needs and tastes of men.
Even to the extent that men do not read or watch movies, experiences
vicariously they offer are often no better, or worse, as they had in real
life:
Most novels and movies are trash for the same reason that flashes Cheez
outsell soda-pop and Brussels sprouts.
Many modern authors write protagonists with obvious mental problems. To the
extent that your thought patterns begin to lead them, it's bad for you.
Movies and books are loaded to program you to benefit from a government or
sponsor, not you. You are being programmed to behave in ways that benefit
someone else, to your disadvantage.
Most transfers of literature unrealistic experiences that inspire bad
choice. If you live your life the way the characters in novels or TV
broadcasts live their typical, you're not going to experience the same
happy ending they do!
That's why I started a new magazine whose content is based on serialized
stories that you actually a little smarter, mentally tougher, and give you
some sophistication about how to live well.
A magazine for men who want to succeed
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fact, a euphemism for advertising and propaganda disguised. The staff get
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