There's a famous quote infamous mystery PUA will start & # 8216; the game
is played in comfort and # 8217. Unfortunately, many of us & # 8212; & #
8212 myself included, nod sagely when we hear it, not to forget in the area
where we focus entirely on the attraction. It is a mistake, because if you
don t take steps to build sufficient comfort with the girl who interests
you then the likelihood is that you lose.
The question is: pumping attraction is addictive so addictive that even
more than a decade after discovering how the many players still delight in
their ability to get a woman they've met just excited and turned on.
The girls also love. You can tell by the way they laugh and smile and rinse
and play with their hair they're digging your playboy atmosphere. And why
do they wouldn? After all, you're being flirty and sexual & # 8212; & #
8212 so brazenly, and you're making him feel good. What is not to like? But
there's a big difference between you build these fun, bubbly feelings come
up in her and she really wants to go all the way and have sex with you.
I've lost so many girls do not establish sufficient comfort that I can not
even begin to count them. I think this happens for many reasons, but
especially if you're any traction and no comfort you clear as a player
without substance or, even worse, a desperado cornea.
Of course there is also the risk against you create too much comfort. To do
this, too early in the interaction and you may be friendzoned. Make too
late & # 8212; once you're already dating & # 8212; and you risk being
dropped.
As with most other things in life, balance is everything. So with that
said, what are the best ways to create comfort with a new girl who will
give you the best chance to seal the deal
1. hand held
Yes, you must touch early and often in the first meeting (kino). No, it
does not mean that you take his ass or breasts right after the intro. , You
should instead focus on non-invasive, & # 8216; & # 8217 security; touch
that nevertheless establishes a physical connection between you.
A great way to do this is by holding hands. Thursday I took a girl named
Mariella for a drink. Almost as soon as we sat in the living room, I took
her hand in mine and gently stroking her fingers. She did not try to remove
it. He set a good sense of easy intimacy between us without crossing the
border in & # 8216; & # 8217 creepiness;.
hand held is great since it's easy to initiate and moves on the physical
aspect of you without being intrusive. In this way, it also builds comfort.
2. Dropping & # 8216; gaminess
The other thing that you should make an effort to do is to abandon all
sense of & # 8216; gaminess your behavior.
It's a mistake I have made repeatedly in the past myself, but there's no
point in continuing with these cocky-funny lines that you use for the first
look.
You use this kind of conversation in the early stages to show that you are
not a chode and you aboard. But when it's hooked & # 8212; i.e .. expressed
their mutual interest in you & # 8212; then you have to drop all that crap
(mostly) and act like a normal human being instead.
If you keep trying to be funny and busting his balls while generally acting
as a PUA noughties on amphetamines, then you can not do favors.
Instead, drop all this for a while and cold. You have him understand that
you are a person in three dimensions, not a caricature, because only then
will it consider getting intimate with you.
3. His movement at different places
It's old school PUA tips, game 101. rebound. If you want it seems you have
known another for longer than you did, then you have to move him.
Resist the temptation to stay in one place for the date set. You have to
break things. You have to move. Why? Simply because it will create an
illusion that you have known for another. The more you visit all places of
your relationship seem more intimate.
4. Give Her Space When you return to your apartment
Resist the temptation to jump on him immediately to his back for you
(unless of course things are so & # 8216; & # 8217 on, it does not do it
would obviously be indented). Instead, give her space. What I normally show
in the living room and let stand while I fix drinks, sort my room (if
necessary), and other tasks that need to do that to keep me out of the way
for a while.
Leave a space like this is incredibly powerful because it builds trust. If
it's coming to your site for the first time then, let's be honest, it
probably feels like she's taken a risk in some way. After all, you are a
guy, she does know. Yes, you seem OK and s & # 8212 attracted, where it
accompanies you & # 8212; but she doesn know for certain.
When you leave it to herself so she sees it temporarily has the option to
leave at any time she wants. That's huge. In addition, you show that you
are not a sex fiend cornea nothing on his mind other than seal the deal.
Again, it's huge. After all, no girl wants to feel like she is there only
as a toy, no matter what the circumstances might be.
So next time you're with a girl and you too long so calm, you find yourself
running attraction material relax and curb instead. Then try to apply
techniques comfort I have described here. I guarantee that if you do you
will find the results more pleasant if you are unable to.
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