Women from more traditional societies, such as in Eastern Europe, South
Asia and the Caribbean, are often compared by mainly Western authors in
their US, UK, and their counterparts in Western Europe . Their femininity,
obedience, care and support are highly praised. As someone who grew up in
Eastern Europe (Bulgaria) and spent most of the past five years in the
South Pacific (Philippines), I am surrounded by women basically all my
life, but there some drawbacks to dating this type of woman.
1. Traditional women are very dependent
It is a fact that many girls in poor countries have fewer resources than
men, and if they want a better life, they need someone who can provide them
more resources. This is among the main reasons why Western men have a huge
success in their home country and # 8212; their potential for resource
extraction is recognized immediately.
Not pretend, however, that the masculine role of a "supplier" has upsides.
Usually these girls will be your responsibility throughout your
relationship. If you are dating by the way, you will not feel bad, because
you only pay for a few drinks and meals here and there, but if you consider
entering into a relationship, know that it will be up to you to provide
up 'to the bitter end (or possibly forever, according to the laws on
marriage).
Many traditional women are resourceful and can learn quickly, but they
generally do not spend the time and money to pursue fancy studies, which
could make the feared woman of strong and independent career. If you can
pay the bill and bring another person on the back (with the exception of
all, you can end up having all wonders), then everything should be good.
If you can barely afford to have a good life on your own, when you start
to "provide" chances are you'll find yourself in the situation of a
declining standard of living. I know a lot of guys are excited by the
thought that their wives existence depends on the money they bring home,
and this can be a concern for you if you are responsible, but it is
certainly a factor often neglected to consider before committing to it
anything long term.
2. They are very good long game
My impression from reading the Western women is that the most difficult is
to establish a meaningful relationship with them. This comes very natural
to traditional girls like traditional companies are still largely
concentrated around family life and do not respond well to singles.
Therefore, it is likely that by the time you meet, it has already been at
least 2-3 long-term relationships before. While the guys in traditional
countries may vary between very low and very macho and dominant, women are
almost always naturally gifted to tie you down.
Observe the traditional girls play the long game is quite the masterpiece
because you rarely get what happens if and when it's happening to you. Some
men may consider this as an asset and I am certainly not one to hold it
against the women for their ability to initiate, develop and maintain
long-term relationships, which can lead to starting a family together.
Before you know it, you will find their presence overconsumption in all
areas of your life, unless you are as good long game and stick to your own
objectives, it will be carefully navigated to a path that best fits its
interests, not necessarily yours.
Most men that I have observed, whether business have had with hundreds of
women or to marry their love of youth, usually react very similarly in this
context: they play along to they feel the benefits of the relationship
outweigh the negatives and if it stops being the case, they are in a
situation where it is equally difficult to restore balance and regain
control, as it is to change or leave their partner.
Just a few decades, when family traditions were at their height, a couple
have finally reached this unbalanced state after many years, even decades.
Today, thanks to the Internet and freedom of movement, this time happens
much faster in a relationship, usually before the birth of a child, while
the temptation to choose a path other than the family life still the length
of an arm.
In short, Western women can aspire to relationships and traditional women
can be extremely skilled at it, but unless you're able to time their
presence in your life with your own priorities and long-term goals, you
would end by also feel discontent both, albeit for slightly different
reasons.
3. They do not age well
Women in the countries of Europe and South East Asia seem to have two
states of physical appearance: quite feminine and attractive to a certain
age and then almost immediately and automatically they become a
quasi-material granny (30 late - early 40s). Some would say that this
applies to women in general, but I think that the poor living conditions,
lower access to the consumption of health care, higher alcohol and less
money for plastic surgery and cosmetic expensive are the factors that make
the most significant transition and sudden than in Western women.
Traditional society also plays a big role here, where women say it
is "inappropriate" for someone their age to go to the gym, dress elegantly
or go to bars and clubs, some women thing in the West still do often deep
into their 40s.
Overall, my main point as someone who has (almost) exclusively dated and
mated with traditional women is that even if they seem like a better deal
overall than their Westernized counterparts, they also come with their own
set of fine print you need to understand and accept before opting for a
long-term relationship.
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