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A reader, Kyle, recently asked a very interesting question:
Here is a theoretical question, I'm curious to hear your response. Though
I think sex is probably the most pleasant thing to be a man, to
At the same time, I often found myself looking forward to old age and
that comes with it: my dick does not give a shit about women more. I have
often thought about how much time, money, and accomplishments that I would
have under my belt, if not for the pursuit of sex.
This TRT not only costs a good bit of money, but it also makes you want
More sex, which also equals more time and more money spent on women.
Imagine eating a meal and just be full for the rest of your life. Say
you can do with sex. Just be complete. No desire. Above. Would you like
consider it?
I remember when I was a young man starting out in the business
world. I am sitting at my desk one day, hard at work as always. From about
13 hours, I was hungry and had to stop and eat. It pissed me I had
fantastic break my flow of work to do something as stupid and primitive
while eating.
So I pulled away from my computer, my backpack caught and released my
lunch, grumbling all the way. I turned to my friend and said, "You know,
eating is a nuisance ".
She thought for a minute, began nodded and said, "Yes. Eating is a
nuisance."
"I prefer to work right," I said. "Now I have to stop and eat just because
my
body needs food stupid? This is bullshit. This is stupid. Look at all the
time
and effort we spend looking for food, eat food, worrying about food.
Man, what nuisance ".
I'm much more at peace with the human body needs for food these days. As
I have already said, men in their 20s, as I was at the time, tend to be
Bitchy, touchy-stress balls. However, I still agree in general with the
the feeling that eating is kind of a pain in the ass.
Kyle is to say, or at least ask the same thing about sex. Yes,
we want sex. Yes, we love sex. But if we did not need or desire when
all?
This is a complex issue that must be addressed more
different angles.
* The lack of function does not mean a lack of desire *
Before answering this question, we must come to a mistaken assumption
within the question itself. Kyle said that one of the reasons why it is
looking forward to an old man because he will not want sex.
His body will probably not be able to have sex (we assume), therefore,
do not want sex at all. During this time, the stress and anxiety around sex
and
women ... gone! Is not that nice?
I heard this view expressed by other men. It's a nice thought, but it is
Incorrect. Just because your sex or the body does not work well enough to
have
sex does not mean you will not want sex. You will always.
I already talked to old men in rut, I saw it in business meetings
and in grocery stores. These are really, really old guy who lost
ability to have sex there is a very long time (even things like Viagra will
not
help them), but they are still as hot as teenagers. They are shameless
comments against women and even do things like take their butts. (And these
old bastards are often with her, because women consider them "old harmless
men. "If you or I did such a thing, we would go to jail.)
I saw the same thing with injured vets who are trapped in
wheelchairs and lose the ability to have sex. Believe me, these guys
always want to have sex just as bad as you or me, if not more.
Therefore, this fantasy that one day you will be "too old to want sex" is
not
very probable. It is possible I suppose, since the levels of testosterone
and sex
Indeed drive declines with age, but I have met too many very old men
(Over 80 years) who are just as excited as any other type, or cock that
works
do not. You may not be able to have sex, but chances are very good that
you want again.
* You will be able to "take a pill" One day *
Another angle is that in our lives, you will be well able to * *
take a pill (or get a shot, or engaging in other simple medical
procedure) that is rewriting your DNA or rewrite your brain
neurons thus not in fact desire sex at all, if that's what you really
want to. Then Kyle hypothetical will not soon be hypothetical; his
will be part of everyday life.
With technologies such as CRISPR, you will be able to design or modify your
body almost as desired. If you want to cure your alcoholism
or go to 8% body fat, you will be able to take a pill or inject something
and in a few weeks, boom, you're there. This is even * before * viable
nanotechnology (we should have in place by 2040). As I speak
much to my other blog, people have no idea of the magnitude of change
who come to the human condition, and very soon (although
in our life).
The problem here is that, as I mentioned in detail here, sex is good for
you physically and mentally. If you stop having sex, you will end up
suffer from mental and physical problems. Go read this article for details.
An argument against-that in the future when you can "take
pill "and remove your sexual desire, by then, we should be able to fix or
mitigate the negative physical lack of sex also. It probably is
true. However, these are still issues that need to be taken into account.
Today, if you go without sex, it's bad for you to some extent, period.
Thus, the hypothetical must be changed to say: "If you could take a pill
that would remove your sexual desire and you have zero or mental
physical side effects of never having sex, would you do it? "
* Yes, Have a high sex drive can be a problem *
I recognized many times that I consider to have a higher than average
libido is a slight disadvantage in life. I have a sex drive that is much
higher than most men, and I am so all my life (or at least
since I lost my virginity in my early 20s). Just like my shit down
metabolism, strong sexual desire is something I had to learn to
manage and integrate with my long-term happy, Alpha Male life 2.0.
Fortunately
for me, I had my sex life "manipulated" (as Eben Pagan said) about eight
or nine years ago, so today it is not a problem. My life FB Alpha 2.0
and MLTR (and these days, and a OLTR FB) is more than enough to handle any
sexual desires I have. I have sex at least three times a week, every week,
and have done for nearly ten years. I literally never droughts.
Yet I admit that there were times that I was jealous of men with normal
sexual urges. I see guys go without sex for a month or more and not
seem bothered at all. I think, "Man, that would be good. for just
so close for a while so I can concentrate on the job ".
As I write this, I'm in my second week in Shanghai. As I
usually have sex when I travel abroad (this is the only time I'm too
happy to think about it), and as I'm not attracted to Chinese women
I have not had sex in about 10 days. This is an unusually long amount
time for me to go without sex. And yes, I begin to "feel" a
little. It would be nice not to feel this urge.
I also get semi-regular emails guys who are worried, they have no sex
lead, and what to do about it. I'm always amused by this. I ask them what
the problem is, and I often joke that I'd like to have this "problem".
My answer to those people is to ask them if they have another negative
symptoms, such as lack of sleep, poor motivation in life, laziness, bad
temper,
or similar problems. If the answer is yes, I tell them to get a little blood
tests and maybe see a doctor. But if they say no, I say not
not worry about it and focus on their happy life. If you are really happy,
there is no need to change anything.
It is also true that the TRT will will increase your libido, even if
Your sex drive was already high to begin with. As I mentioned in my
messages about this, my libido has actually increased, even if it was
already high. For the first months of TRT, I felt like a voracious sex
monster, and my already high level of sexual activity increased
significantly.
However, as always, I built it in my lifestyle and now it is fine. His
become my new normal. (Thank you God, I am not a Beta or Alpha monogamous
1.0
or I would have a serious problem of life on my hands. absolute sexual
Monogamy can * not * work for the man of high sex drive, or woman for that
material.)
But yes, to be clear, with a high libido is indeed a drawback
life because it forces you to take time and additional efforts to manage
this and
integrate this in your life, something most "normal" men
need to do, or at least will not be necessary to do so.
* A healthy sex drive is closely associated with other positive traits *
libido, at least the male type, is not a feature which is isolated from
everything else. Rather, it is almost always linked to other traits
will really help you in life, such as:
1. Higher levels of daily energy
2. A stronger drive to achieve the objectives (in business, fitness, women,
or
whatever)
3. A more optimistic view of the world and / or your own future
4. A more masculine personality and perhaps more confident (making you more
attractive to women, and to a degree, men as well)
This is exactly why I say Alpha Men promising monogamy are lying,
either to the woman or to themselves. Dynamic, motivated, confident,
male, men have generally been training more sex drive. It is
logged. One could almost think male libido not as a single line,
but as a line in a basket of other features that are hard-coded
together.
So if I "took a pill" that blasted my high zero sexual appetite, it would
also probably reduce my level of energy, drive, motivation and the joy of
living,
at least to the point where I and others noticed. Holy hell, that is
the last thing I want! These are the same traits that helped me
achieve my goals, and I'm going to need to hit future targets, which I
have a lot. It is these traits that give me the edge over most other men,
many are smarter and / or more handsome than me, but that normal
or lower sex drives.
It is true that in the future we might be able to manipulate the human brain
or DNA to "surgery" to remove any sex drive without disturbing anything
else in our personalities, but until that day arrives, it is extremely
dangerous to assume that sexual desire can or should be reduced because all
what happens is that you want less sex. No, your male readers will
also suffer. I've seen it with many men as they age, my father
included. Yes, the sex drive decreases, but the fact the general happiness
levels and the joy of living. No thanks.
* So I take this pill fuck? *
You will notice that I have not yet answered the question. It's because
I needed to provide all of the above context for my answer. Now that you
have this context, here is my answer.
Question 1: Do I take a pill that reduces my sexual desire for zero
rest of my life, so I never needed to worry about getting sex?
My answer: No, because I would lose other key aspects of my personality
which are extremely valuable and important to me. Keeping the high sexual
desire,
it causes even "overhead" in my life, is more than worth having
these positive traits.
Question 2: Okay, if the pill has eliminated your libido for the rest
of your life while allowing you to keep all these traits, and ensure
you will suffer * * negative physical or mental side effects?
My response: While I'm very tempted now, my answer is always no. Even if I
were
no sex drive, there would be scenarios I can imagine having in my future
I would want to have a sex drive and enjoy sex, even if a
a little moment.
For example, I really like riding on large super-fast roller coaster. I have
riding a lot and can not wait to get some more. If you waved a magic wand
and completely eliminated the desire of my personality, even if you kept
everything else the same, I'm sure I'd be a little sad, or
less affected, as are the emails I receive men worry that they
no sex drive. I remember the pleasure these coasters were, and I can
consider to want to want to go on again. So my answer is still no,
tempting that I admit is.
Question 3: Okay, okay. Let's say you can take this pill, but at
time, you can take an antidote that would return instantly up your sex
back to you. You can go "on" and "off" the pill whenever you like,
as much as you want, without side effects either, without affecting
any motivation or drive. Now, would you take?
My answer: Yes, now I take it. If I was 100% sure that it worked
how you say it would be in your case, and I have seen many other men
do successfully over several years (I * not * be a
early adopter; not even close), while I'd probably do it. The capacity
* * to temporarily switch off my sex drive would be a useful feature in my
body, provided the rest of my happy personality was motivated
unchanged.
Hopefully now you understand how the issue of male sex drive is not
simple as it seems. For now, I'll stick with it.
But hey, who knows what the future holds?
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