The difference between Kino and sexual Escalation

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physical contact, when properly used in a dating environment, is a huge
attractor at several levels. It not only feels good, but also
demonstrates the massive confidence and a strong, sexual, Alpha EFA. To win
all over. This is commonly called kino, and it is critical
component of your pre-Sex process.

* Kino * * * differs from sexual climbing, and I noticed a lot of
confusion about these two terms. Kino is touching a woman during
a first environment date / gathering where you have not had sex with her and
really do not plan to have sex with her at that time. Sexual
climbing means exactly what it says. It is touching a woman with full
for movement affecting sex in a few minutes.

My encounter model looks like this (click to enlarge):

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On my model, you have a very rapid (one hour), very good first market
So far, quickly followed by a second date for you, where you
climbing to sex. Once you do well this model, you will have sex
within 3-5 hours of face. (My average time in this system is about
three hours of face.) It is the most reproducible and reliable * fast *
model I know, despite the fact that it is divided into two separate
"Dates," rather than trying to have sex with women on the first
Date / encounter, which means you'll have to spend much time struggling
TSA (which means either setting a more or have more numbers
first dates).

If you follow my model, then Kino is something you do on the first
this day, climbing sexual wheras is something you do on the second date.

If I'm on a first date with a woman and I feel a certain way (his
arms, her hair, her back, whatever), it is not my intention to go to
The on sex and there, or even tonight. Instead, my kino is a way
for me to increase attraction, both in physical appearance (touch) and
the mental aspect (demonstrate that I am confident, independent outcome
guys).

There is another type of kino called "kino accessory", where you touch a
woman on a first date / competition but do apparently by accident. Examples
would
be "accidentally" brushing your arm or bend and touch his
shoulder, apparently to better hear what she says.

I personally think that is incidental kino for pussies. If you want to touch
hands or hair, just be a man and do it. This is Alpha. If it gets
horrified and slaps your hand, then fine, but the number of first
dates I've had is in the three digits, and I've literally never had
something like this happens. (To be clear, I'm talking daygame, social
circle game, or a first date via online dating. I can not speak of the night
game since I have no experience with it.)

The point here is that no matter how aggressive, romantic, or Wimpy
Touch is a first date, it should never be your intention to move to
sex via this touch if you follow the dating model I describe in my
books. Before you say yes, as always there are some unusual exceptions,
and sometimes you will be on a first date with a woman who is so excited and
in that you do not have to wait for a second date to have sex, but
these are the exceptions *, not the rule, and not what you usually
experience (especially if the woman is over 33).

Climbing is sexual touching, but it is very different from the kino. during
kino, you are probably on a first date / meeting and in a public place.
during
Sexual climbing, you are alone with her, in your place or hers, sitting on
a couch or bed It's great time, and sexual escalation is the first phase.

Thus, sexual climbing is much more aggressive and sexual. Of course if
it says you have to stop, but if it does not, you continue until you
having sex.

Many guys make the mistake of mixing those two things. For example, many
guys (usually Alphas) ​​actually engage in sex with a woman climbing
a first date, in public, without checking if it attracted
yet, without checking all the logistics of whether or not it can
have sex in the next hour, depending on the logistics and time
constraints.

It's stupid and simply cause a lot of first dates that go
nowhere. You text her the next day she did not respond, and you will never
hear it. You were too much of a player. This is one of many
why I give them * tips * never kiss a woman on a first date
(Unless you know for 100% sure that you will have sex on the first
date). It kills the sexual tension and buyer's remorse tips (TSA after-date)
reduce the chances that you'll never see her again.

Another example, which is more common, are the guys (usually betas) that
have an interested woman, alone in their home, sitting on their bed or
sofa, and they (the boys) engaging in sexual kino instead of climbing.
They touch him, but make mischief rather than sexually. * Maybe * they
embrace
it a bit, but that's all. They are too afraid to climb sexually
no sex occurs, and finally the woman, who probably wanted to have sex
(Or at least more fun than sex kino) leaves, confused and often
switch off.

Do not mix these two things! Kino is what you do on the first date * and *
Sexual climbing is what you do on the * second * time, assuming you're both
in a private, safe on that second date. (Otherwise, you will
unfortunately go for sex on third date.) The mixture of these two things is
will cause a lot of time lost in your love life. do not
do it.

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