Psychology as a field was planted by the broken Philosophy 19th
century, and now it develops through a broken subsidy system and regime. As
such, it perpetuates myths that psychologists do not see or care to see.
Here are six of them:
1. Impulsiveness needs an exit
This myth pervades one of the major genres to grace the silver
screen cop movies. If the buddy tense member of the duo does not learn to
Relax, be more impulsive as a pleasure, and it is moving towards a
premature death of stress removed. Yet, impulsivity, or act without
thought, does not relieve stress, it increases stress.
As obsessive thoughts or compulsive behaviors, impulsivity is a
avoidant behavior in that it is a distraction latent pain
anxiety. Avoidance does the anxiety worse because when we avoid
anxiety confirms in our mind of the possible threat of anxiety. the
deleted archetype and impulsive archetype are the two sides of the same
-Two pieces represent an immature way to handle anxiety.
2. A single traumatic event involved childhood to adulthood neuroses
It is possible that a traumatic event can shape our lives, but it is rarely
Event. And if we can identify an event, not the event, but how our
family and friends reacted to the supposed cataclysm. Let's say our double
brother died when we were in elementary school. If we are always
unconsciously
negatively influenced by these years later, it is not because of
Billy died, but how our mother became distressing and emotionless.
Trauma is often broadcasts for many years. He comes from a long line or
either abandoned or indulgences too little attention or too
both because of the alleged injury. Simple, inciting incidents are
a great story to tell, but they are rarely more than a scapegoat
for non-secure attachments.
3. Find the cause of neurosis cure neurosis
It makes for a Hitchcockian plot when a man dives deep into his subconscious
to find the root of his behavior, understand the cause, and in a
Instant is able to move with a new sense of psychological freedom.
Except real life is not for the trip of an economic hero. If we have
an anxiety disorder, there is rarely a single cause, but even if there is
only one
the cause, the discovery of what he's done little to reduce anxiety. We can
see
the can with worms crawled, but it does not clean
worms. Until we do the work that nobody wants to do by confronting our
threats involving usually perceived parental relationships-not
moment "aha" make a big difference.
4. blame the victim blames the victim
I preach to the choir probably, but it's worth repeating: "victim
blame "is a phrase * inhibits clearer thinking than political
rally. * No one has ever blamed the victim, not in the West and not in the
three centuries. "Blaming the victim" just leaves a victim knows her part
in perpetuating the situation. It's called being a responsible adult by
discover layers of increasingly vast consciousness, that has nothing to
do with blame anyone.
5. We can replace bad habits with good habits
An idea or hope rather that became popular in the mid 20th century,
with the rise of cognitive psychology is that we can simply exchange a bad
usually by taking part in a good habit instead. It is the reason
replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts, or chew gum instead
smoking. This only works if the good habit reduces psychological
problem causing the bad habit. Attend meeting in 12 steps instead of
drink could take the rage of our alcoholism if relations
formed at the meeting to relieve the anxiety that caused the alcohol
consumption. But the
bad habit can not simply be covered or new training. Whatever is the cause
bad habit must first be managed itself, which creates space for a
good habit to complete, potentially.
6. Reason and emotion are intrinsically contradictory
These are two different information processing methods and assessment
world, but that does not mean they are inherently disagree. They can be
opportunities, and they are in most people, but that does not mean it is
necessarily
so. Our emotions are rough ideas from our many beliefs and
perceptions about ourselves and the world. These beliefs and perceptions
emotion can underpin correct, but when they are incorrect, they
will contradict reason.
We may rationally know it is good to let our girlfriend because she became
fat, but we did not feel like it's the right thing emotionally because back
our emotion is the belief that we do not deserve to have a girlfriend
takes care of itself. When we have a conflict between our reason and
emotions, do not take this as a sign that we are fundamentally flawed as
men, but
rather we failed as a man. Instead of stewing in our supposed
impotence, we will take the responsibility to understand the source
our inner conflicts.
Conclusion
The myths presented here represent only some of the issues with
psychology. To fix the field, we have to correct them all. But to fix our
psychology, the same correction of these errors sets us up a life
the ease and success.
* More: You are on a treadmill of materialism This is going nowhere? *
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